Many animals end up in a shelter due to deep personal sacrifice.

August 29, 2009

I received this story in an email.  I don’t know if it’s true or not, but no matter it needs to be shared because none of us have the courtesy of having a shelter dog’s story shared with us.  Any one of the dogs at the Randolph County Humane Society or any of the shelters across the country are filled with dogs given up because of deep personal sacrifice as told in this story:

They told me the big black Lab’s name was Reggie as I looked at him lying in his pen. The shelter was clean, no-kill, and the people really friendly. I’d only been in the area for six months, but everywhere I went in the small college town, people were welcoming and open. Everyone waves when you pass them on the street.  But something was still missing as I attempted to settle in to my new life here, and I thought a dog couldn’t hurt. Give me someone to talk to.  And I had just seen Reggie’s advertisement on the local news. The shelter said they had received numerous calls right after, but they said the people who had come down to see him just didn’t look like “Lab people,” whatever that meant. They must’ve thought I did.  But at first, I thought the shelter had misjudged me in giving me Reggie and his things, which consisted of a dog pad, bag of toys almost all of which were brand new tennis balls, his dishes, and a sealed letter from his previous owner. See, Reggie and I didn’t really hit it off when we got home. We struggled for two weeks (which is how long the shelter told me to give him to adjust to his new home). Maybe it was the fact that I was trying to adjust, too. Maybe we were too much alike.  For some reason, his stuff (except for the tennis balls – he wouldn’t go anywhere without two stuffed in his mouth) got tossed in with all of my other unpacked boxes. I guess I didn’t really think he’d need all his old stuff, that I’d get him new things once he settled in. but it became pretty clear pretty soon that he wasn’t going to.   I tried the normal commands the shelter told me he knew, ones like “sit” and “stay” and “come” and “heel,” and he’d follow them – when he felt like it. He never really seemed to listen when I called his name – sure, he’d look in my direction after the fourth of fifth time I said it, but then he’d just go back to doing whatever. When I’d ask again, you could almost see him sigh and then grudgingly obey.  This just wasn’t going to work. He chewed a couple shoes and some unpacked boxes. I was a little too stern with him and he resented it, I could tell.  The friction got so bad that I couldn’t wait for the two weeks to be up, and when it was, I was in full-on search mode for my cell phone amid all of my unpacked stuff. I remembered leaving it on the stack of boxes for the guest room, but I also mumbled, rather cynically, that the “damn dog probably hid it on me.”  Finally I found it, but before I could punch up the shelter’s number, I also found his pad and other toys from the shelter.. I tossed the pad in Reggie’s direction and he snuffed it and wagged, some of the most enthusiasm I’d seen since bringing him home. But then I called, “Hey, Reggie, you like that? Come here and I’ll give you a treat.” Instead, he sort of glanced in my direction – maybe “glared” is more accurate – and then gave a discontented sigh and flopped down. With his back to me.  Well, that’s not going to do it either, I thought. And I punched the shelter phone number.  But I hung up when I saw the sealed envelope. I had completely forgotten about that, too. “Okay, Reggie,” I said out loud, “let’s see if your previous owner has any advice.”

To Whoever Gets My Dog:

Well, I can’t say that I’m happy you’re reading this, a letter I told the shelter could only be opened by Reggie’s new owner.  I’m not even happy writing it. If you’re reading this, it means I just got back from my last car ride with my Lab after dropping him off at the shelter. He knew something was different. I have packed up his pad and toys before and set them by the back door before a trip, but this time…. it’s like he knew something was wrong. And something is wrong… which is why I have to go to try to make it right.  So let me tell you about my Lab in the hopes that it will help you bond with him and he with you.  First, he loves tennis balls. the more the merrier. Sometimes I think he’s part squirrel, the way he hordes them. He usually always has two in his mouth, and he tries to get a third in there. Hasn’t done it yet. Doesn’t matter where you throw them, he’ll bound after it, so be careful – really don’t do it by any roads. I made that mistake once, and it almost cost him dearly.  Next, commands. Maybe the shelter staff already told you, but I’ll go over them again: Reggie knows the obvious ones -”sit,” “stay,” “come,” “heel..” He 2nows hand signals: “back” to turn around and go back when you put your hand straight up; and “over” if you put your hand out right or left. “Shake” for shaking water off, and “paw” for a high-five. He does “down” when he feels like lying down – I bet you could work on that with him some more. He knows “ball” and “food” and “bone” and “treat” like nobody’s business.  I trained Reggie with small food treats. Nothing opens his ears like little pieces of hot dog.  Feeding schedule: twice a day, once about seven in the morning, and again at six in the evening. Regular store-bought stuff; the shelter has the brand.  He’s up on his shots.  Call the clinic on 9th Street and update his info with yours; they’ll make sure to send you reminders for when he’s due. Be forewarned: Reggie hates the vet. Good luck getting him in the car – I don’t know how he knows when it’s time to go to the vet, but he knows.  Finally, give him some time.  I’ve never been married, so it’s only been Reggie and me for his whole life. He’s gone everywhere with me, so please include him on your daily car rides if you can. He sits well in the backseat, and he doesn’t bark or complain. He just loves to be around people, and me most especially..  Which means that this transition is going to be hard, with him going to live with someone new.  And that’s why I need to share one more bit of info with you….  His name’s not Reggie.  I don’t know what made me do it, but when I dropped him off at the shelter, I told them his name was Reggie. He’s a smart dog, he’ll get used to it and will respond to it, of that I have no doubt. but I just couldn’t bear to give them his real name. For me to do that, it seemed so final, that handing him over to the shelter was as good as me admitting that I’d never see him again. And if I end up coming back, getting him, and tearing up this letter, it means everything’s fine. But if someone else is reading it, well… well it means that his new owner should know his real name. It’ll help you bond with him. Who knows, maybe you’ll even notice a change in his demeanor if he’s been giving you problems.  His real name is Tank.  Because that is what I drive.  Again, if you’re reading this and you’re from the area, maybe my name has been on the news. I told the shelter that they couldn’t make “Reggie” available for adoption until they received word from my company commander. See, my parents are gone, I have no siblings, no one I could’ve left Tank with… and it was my only real request of the Army upon my deployment to Iraq, that they make one phone call the the shelter… in the “event”… to tell them that Tank could be put up for adoption. Luckily, my colonel is a dog guy, too, and he knew where my platoon was headed. He said he’d do it personally. And if you’re reading this, then he made good on his word. Well, this letter is getting to downright depressing, even though, frankly, I’m just writing it for my dog. I couldn’t imagine if I was writing it for a wife and kids and family. but still, Tank has been my family for the last six years, almost as long as the Army has been my family..And now I hope and pray that you make him part of your family and that he will adjust and come to love you the same way he loved me.  That unconditional love from a dog is what I took with me to Iraq as an inspiration to do something selfless, to protect innocent people from those who would do terrible things… and to keep those terrible people from coming over here. If I had to give up Tank in order to do it, I am glad to have done so. He was my example of service and of love. I hope I honored him by my service to my country and comrades.

All right, that’s enough.  I deploy this evening and have to drop this letter off at the s shelter. I don’t think I’ll say another good-bye to Tank, though. I cried too much the first time. Maybe I’ll peek in on him and see if he finally got that third tennis ball in his mouth.   Good luck with Tank. Give him a good home, and give him an extra kiss goodnight – every night – from me.

Thank you,

Paul Mallory

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I folded the letter and slipped it back in the envelope. Sure I had heard of Paul Mallory, everyone in town knew him, even new people like me. Local kid, killed in Iraq a few months ago and posthumously earning the Silver Star when he gave his life to save three buddies. Flags had been at half-mast all summer.  I leaned forward in my chair and rested my elbows on my knees, staring at the dog.  “Hey, Tank,” I said quietly..  The dog’s head whipped up, his ears cocked and his eyes bright.  “C’mere boy.”  He was instantly on his feet, his nails clicking on the hardwood floor. He sat in front of me, his head tilted, searching for the name he hadn’t heard in months.  “Tank,” I whispered.  His tail swished.  I kept whispering his name, over and over, and each time, his ears lowered, his eyes softened, and his posture relaxed as a wave of contentment just seemed to flood him. I stroked his ears, rubbed his shoulders, buried my face into his scruff and hugged him.  “It’s me now, Tank, just you and me.  Your old pal gave you to me.” Tank reached up and licked my cheek. “So whatdaya say we play some ball? His ears perked again.  ”Yeah? Ball? You like that? Ball?” Tank tore from my hands and disappeared in the next room.  And when he came back, he had three tennis balls in his mouth….

Never forget, it is only through you that the RCHS continues to save lives, one by one.


My most embarrassingly funny moments with my pets

August 21, 2009

When you spend your days with animals, chances are you are going to have some funny times with them.  The problem is, they are probably embarrassing also, but I’m not going to let that stop me from sharing because I figure we’re all human so there’s a better than not chance we’ve all experienced it, we’re just not owning up to it.  Every year late in the summer when the mold count is high my allergies kick in, and my most unladylike conduct kicks in – I snore.  Not a little noise barely discernable above the fan my husband must have to sleep to but go to the next room and put pillows over your head snoring.  Fortunately Tim sleeps on his side and the ear that is open to the room is deaf from years of answering a radio in a manufacturing plant and not wearing ear plugs, so he doesn’t hear a thing because his hearing ear is buried in the pillow in the bed.  But twice now I’ve woken to Booger the cat, sitting on his haunches, slapping my face with the soft pads of his front paws, a look on his face that says “what on earth is that noise coming out of your mouth” and “please stop it immediately!”  I always thought the only way you got a look like that with a cat was with Photoshop or one of the other photo software packages available, but no, keep them from their beauty sleep and it comes naturally.  Nothing like being taken to task by your cat when you have no idea what you’re doing because you’re sleeping right through it, or at least you were blissfully unaware before you brought the cat into your menagerie.  I always had a feeling that I snored because my throat hurt in the morning, but the look on the cat’s face told me more than I ever wanted to know.  My first dog in my adult life was the cutest Cocker Spaniel ever to walk the face of the planet.  She had long bangs that would hang down and framed the most beautiful doggy eyes with 2” long eye lashes (and that’s not an exaggeration; she could have been a movie star).  I had her before the days of Eukanuba (I know you think they pay me but they don’t – but whatever they do for a dog’s intestinal system is the bees knees to me) and this beautiful little dog would sit at my feet and pass the most horrible smelling gas you have ever smelled with the longest hang time imaginable.  It’s one thing when you’re home alone but this was when I was 18 and newly married, and our house was where everyone came to hang out.  What was I going to do, blame it on the beautiful little dog?  Right, like anyone is going to believe that.  Talk about a lesson in humility.  But I tried anyway because no one in their right mind wanted to be held responsible for that odor.  That was 35 years ago and I remember it like it was yesterday!  My dad had a Brittany Spaniel that was supposed to be a hunting dog but DeDe turned out to be a great couch potato.  She was definitely more man’s best friend than great hunting companion.  One day dad and his buddies went to a bird hunting day camp, and they took DeDe with them (this was many, many years ago).  They left the house at 3 am so they could be in line by 5 am with the hope of hunting birds.  While they were waiting in line to sign up for the day, a bus pulled in with the Cardinal Football team (yes, that’s how old this story is).  So there they all are, all the regular folks that have been standing in line since 5 am when the football Cardinals get off the bus at 9 am and go to the front of the line.  Tensions are high already when all of a sudden all you can hear is a car horn blasting from somewhere in the parking lot.   And on it goes for five minutes, ten minutes, fifteen minutes.  Finally my dad turns around, wondering who on earth is making that racket when he realizes it is his very own dear DeDe, standing on the horn of his car in the parking lot.  His dog is the only hunting dog that is loose in the car and not in a cage in the back.  As I said, she was a great couch potato, never a good hunting dog.  But he was happy he was able to irritate the football Cardinals that cut in line almost as much as they irritated him by taking his place from him when he’d stood in line for three hours, so all is fair and DeDe got a bone for being especially obnoxious that day, even if she was the most embarrassing hunting dog of all times.  For some reason DeDe was also attracted to men in navy blue slacks and she couldn’t resist humping their legs.  We knew what she was thinking because she was giving them a sideways look but it was never outwardly apparent to her target until she made her move.  My mom was embarrassed on more than one occasion by not paying attention to the direction DeDe was glancing or the color of her guests’ clothing.  DeDe crossed the rainbow bridge fifteen years ago but we still laugh about her antics today. She was purchased to be a hunting dog, and when she didn’t succeed in her purpose my dad could have abandoned her but he didn’t but instead made her a great family dog that is an important part of the fondest memories of his children and grandchildren.    I read a saying that God gives us memories that we might have roses in December.  Their lives may be short in comparison to ours, but the memories of the times we share with our animals are ours forever and we’ll never forget what they do for us.  You can have all of this too if you just make the effort to contact the shelter and tell them you’re ready for the greatest love of your life.  And never forget, it is only through you that the Randolph County Humane Society continues to save lives, one by one.

The RCHS annual fall rummage sale is coming up the first week of October.  Please call the shelter at 618-443-3363 for info on where to drop off donations.  We can’t do it without you.


My best friend crossed the rainbow bridge today.

August 14, 2009

This is a very sad day for me because Budward, my very best friend for the past twelve years, was euthanized today.  I had hoped beyond all hopes that he would cross the rainbow bridge from natural causes during his sleep, but it didn’t turn out that way and it was necessary for me to intervene.  I wrote about the special friendships we experience with our animals when I wrote about my best friend Budward in the November 13, 2008 www.TailTalk.org article called “My best friend knows me well.”  If you didn’t see it when it was originally published, please take a moment and read it now.  The other day I received an email from the shelter about the recent influx of animals that have made their way to the shelter, and there are 7 that are heartworm positive dogs that will require extensive medical treatment.  I ask that if you have enjoyed anything I’ve written over the past year that you dig deep into your pockets at this time and make a donation to the shelter or perhaps even become a sponsor for one of these animals.  You never know, any one of these dogs could be someone’s Budward, but without your immediate help they may not make it to that point.  I write these weekly articles for the benefit of the animals for no payment, only in the hope it will stir the hearts and souls to adopt or volunteer at the shelter.  If anything I’ve said has brought a smile to your face or a tear to your eye then I’m asking in honor of my Budward or your own special friend that you dig deep and make your donation now.  It would mean so much to me to know that you would honor his memory by helping the dogs that are in the same place Budward was when he and I first met 12-1/2 years ago when he first walked up to my doorstep, snow and ice frozen to his belly, legs and feet, alone and with no one to love him or care for him.  Someone had dumped him, just as is happening now so frequently at the shelter.  Go to Petfinder.com, search on dogs in zip code 62286 and you’ll see how many dogs have been left at the shelter in the past week.  The shelter can’t survive with this number of dogs being dumped week after week, especially the number with serious medical needs.  If you can’t afford to make a donation to the shelter then consider volunteering your time.  But understand what this means.  This isn’t a one time deal, but if once is all you can give then make that known when you call.  Otherwise you will be put on a schedule.  You may be given a mop to clean a cage.  You may be asked to walk a dog.  If that dog poops while you’re walking him, then you’ll be responsible for picking it up and bringing it back for disposal at the shelter.  That means you may get dog poop on your hand.  Trust me, the world does not end if you get poop on your hand.  Over the past months my best buddy Budward lost the use of his hind legs and there were times when he got poop on his fur, and I cleaned him up, over and over again.  I did it because I loved him.  He didn’t do it on purpose.  He didn’t do it out of spite.  There was nothing wrong with him except he lost the use of his legs.  My legs don’t work so well either, so I could relate.  Having poop in places it shouldn’t be is something we go through at the beginning of life and again towards the end of our lives.  Hopefully we have loved ones around that are willing to take care of us because they love us and the task, while never fun, is just something that has to be done.  But do it for love and be rewarded for what you do with the greatest love that you will ever know.   I know, because I have this huge empty feeling in my chest because I am missing the love from my very best friend that crossed the rainbow bridge today.  Oh what I wouldn’t give to have poop on my hands right now to wash off.  Because that would mean my Budward would still be with me, making me laugh with his silliness and his antics.  He always knew how to brighten my day no matter what was causing my clouds.  For now I’ll miss my very good friend but I know I’ll see him again.  He’ll be there, waiting to show me the way across the bridge when it’s my turn, but oh how I miss him.  You can make a difference in the life of a dog at the shelter right now, and every one of those animals is someone’s Budward.  Please help.

The Randolph County Humane Society is having their fall garage sale the first week of October.  Call the shelter at 618-443-3363 for information about where to drop off donations.


The Human-Animal Bond

August 10, 2009

I was reading the AmericanHumane.org website about their animal-assisted therapy programs, taking animals into hospitals and nursing homes, producing dramatic, positive results with patients due to the unconditional acceptance the animals provide.  I did some additional research and was overwhelmed with the amount of data available online on the subject, but this was the most significant.  According to the Delta Society Healthy Reasons To Have A Pet:

Human-Animal Bond Facts
•Seniors who own dogs go to the doctor less than those who do not. not. In a study of 100 Medicare patients, even the most highly stressed dog owners had 21% fewer physician contacts than non-dog owners. (Siegel, 1990)
•Seniors who own pets coped better with stress life events without entering the healthcare system. (Raina, 1998)
•Pet owners have lower blood pressure. (Friedman, 1983, Anderson 1992)
•Pet owners have lower triglyceride and cholesterol levels than non-owners. (Anderson, 1992)
•ACE inhibitors lower resting blood pressure but they do not diminish reactivity to mental stress. Pet ownership can lessen cardiovascular reactivity to psychological stress among hypertensive patients treated with a daily dose of Lisinopril. (Allen, 1999)
•Companionship of pets (particularly dogs) helps children in families adjust better to the serious illness and death of a parent. (Raveis, 1993)
•Pet owners feel less afraid of being a victim of crime when walking with a dog or sharing a residence with a dog. (Serpel, 1990)
•Pet owners have fewer minor health problems. (Friedmann, 1990, Serpel, 1990)
•Pet owners have better psychological well-being. (Serpel, 1990)
•Contact with pets develops nurturing behavior in children who may grow to be more nurturing adults. (Melson, 1990)
•Medication costs dropped from an average of $3.80 per patient per day to just $1.18 per patient per day in new nursing home facilities in New York, Missouri and Texas having animals and plants as an integral part of the environment. (Montague, 1995)
•Pet owners have higher one-year survival rates following coronary heart disease. (Friedman, 1980, 1995)
•Pets fulfill many of the same support functions as humans for adults and children. (Melson, 1998)
•Pets in nursing homes increase social and verbal interactions. (Fick, 1992)
•Having a pet may decrease heart attack mortality by 3%. This translates into 30,000 lives saved annually. (Friedman, 1980)
•Pet owners have better physical health due to exercise with their pets. (Serpel, 1990)
•Dogs are preventative and therapeutic measures against everyday stress. (Allen, 1991, 1996)
•Pets decrease feelings of loneliness and isolation. (Kidd, 1994)
•Children exposed to humane education programs display enhanced empathy for humans compared with children not exposed to such programs. (Ascione, 1992)
•The ADL level of seniors who did not currently own pets deteriorated more on average than that of respondents who currently owned pets. (Raina, 1999)
•Positive self-esteem of children is enhanced by owning a pet. (Bergensen, 1989)
•Children’s cognitive development can be enhanced by owning a pet. (Poresky, 1988)
•70% of families surveyed reported an increase in family happiness and fun after getting a pet. (Cain, 1985)
•The presence of a dog during a child’s physical examination decreases the child’s stress. (Nadgengast, 1997, Baun, 1998)
•Children owning pets are more involved in activities such as sports, hobbies, clubs, or chores. (Melson, 1990)
•Children exposed to pets during the first year of life have a lower frequency of allergic rhinitis and asthma. (Hesselmar, 1999)
•Children with autism who have pets have more prosocial behaviors and less autistic behaviors such as self-absorption. (Redefer, 1989)
•Children who own pets score significantly higher on empathy and prosocial orientation scales than non-owners. (Vidovic, 1999)
•People with AIDS who have pets have less depression and reduced stress. Pets are a major source of support and increase perception the ability to cope. (Siegel, 1999, Carmack, 1991)

This is scientific fact folks, not something I just pulled out of my hat.  I don’t understand why anyone would live life without a household pet, especially a household with children, when the benefits we receive can literally be the difference between life and death.  I know in my own life if it weren’t for my first shelter dog I wouldn’t be here today living the good life in God’s country, Randolph County, Illinois.  I can’t believe all the life I would have missed out on but because a cocker spaniel shelter dog saved my life I am blessed to share my story with you.  If you missed that Tail Talk you can read the May 6, 2009 article online at www.TailTalk.org for the full explanation.  Just please never forget, it is only through you that the Randolph County Humane Society continues to save lives, one by one.


Yum, that’s some good water…..

August 1, 2009

Over the past weeks I’ve been telling Tim that I’ve seen Booger, the inside cat, drinking out of the toilet just like Jack.  Tim said he had seen cats drink out of the toilet; they get up with all four feet on the rim or with their feet in the bowl but not in the water.  I said no, Booger is standing with two feet on the floor, paws around the bowl, stretched as long as he can manage to drink out of the bowl.  Tim then proceeded to tell me that this is impossible, the cat’s body is not long enough to reach from his toes on the floor to nose to the water in the bowl.  Well, I know I’m not crazy and his body may not be long enough but I’ve seen him and he’s drinking from the toilet.  So every time after that time I told him I saw Booger again, toes on the floor, nose in the toilet bowl, drinking.  We were watching a movie the other evening when I saw Tim jump up from his chair and very quietly run across the living room.  I had no idea what he was doing until he came walking back into the living room, shaking his head, muttering “that must be some really good water.”  I had to laugh because it really must be some really good water because everyone in the house except us prefers their water from the toilet bowl.  Action Jackson, the shelter dog rescued from the high kill shelter almost one year ago and Booger the rescue cat, continue to be the very best of friends, playing together inside and out.  Before Booger, Jack had to be content running from room to room by himself, working off his puppy energy.  Now he has a buddy that runs from one end of the house to the other with him, Jack in chase one way with Booger in chase the other.  I’ve never been quick enough to see what happens at the end to make the switch but it involves the dining room table and the rolling office chair.  Together they are learning to get into the kind of trouble you expect out of children.  This morning Tim wasn’t quick enough getting to the door to let them in so there was Booger, up on the outside deck railing, trying to open storm door handle.  When the animals are outside we leave the exterior door open with only have the storm door closed for entrance to the house.  I don’t know what Booger would have done if he would have gotten the storm door open but I’m sure they would have worked together to find a solution to get inside.  Oh if only people of different persuasions worked together the way our cat and dog have managed, considered mortal enemies in everything from the animal kingdom to the cartoon network, think of what the world could be.  We can all start small by adopting a kitten along with that really cute puppy that grows up and ends up back in a shelter because it becomes more demanding in its care than we are willing to provide.  It’s a win-win relationship for everyone, especially if you adopt your new family members from your local shelter.  And never forget, it is only through you that the Randolph County Humane Society continues to save lives, one by one.


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